Minnie, I just have to say that was very good advice and I'm going to follow it too. I too have been too fixated on trying to figure out my husbands future and today is passing us by.
Thank you kerry
Kerry/wife of stephenm StageIV - Base of Tongue T4N0M0 XRT x42 / Taxol and Carboplatin x4 Tx. Finished 5/08/06