Hi Michelle- My husband was diagnosed with stage 1V cancer to the floor of his mouth. Scary number. We were completely in shock although I think he knew that he was really ill. I have children also but they are teenagers. I'm amazed at all the info you gathered prior to your doctor's visits. Way to go. Hang in there- this is a great place to come to for support!

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.