Dear AMK..this thread is heartbreaking..I am sure everyone here feels as I do , I wish we could physically be there to help, to motivate, to advise.
These folks have been thru it all , they can help!
May Your God go with you.
Marica
Caregiver to husband Pete. Stage IV base of tongue.
One year PET clear this week

Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!