Dear AMK,
I am praying for you, Kim, and your entire family. I agree with your mom that God has a purpose for each of us. Not to say that I understand at all that my husband is battling cancer, but I am daily asking God for healing and also strength, courage and wisdom to be what I need to be in all of this...I can say that God has been with me thru the crying and fear. I have felt lonely, but never really alone. I feel that He is hearing me, feeling my pain and walking beside Dan and I in this journey. I read somewhere to try and not worry about tomorrow because it does not belong to us, but to God. Makes great sense to me.
Take care and God bless,
Debbie

Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.