Daisy,
I know everything is so very overwhelming right now. You have already received some good advice. The only thing I could possibly add is to seek a second opinion. The treatment for any head/neck cancer is a very difficult journey. Vent here any time. You are among friends and we are pulling for you both.

Carol

Carol R - caregiver to hubby Ken. Stage 4, SCC, BOT. 6/05 dx, 9/25/05 last tx, 5/06 stroke. Four years cancer free! Still taking things 1 day at a time.