You can't not worry about what might happen. No disrespect but that is ludicrous. I was in pain, constant pain for 3 months before my surgery, then I was in worse constant pain after my surgery, then when I healed from that everything went backwards and I'm in constant pain again. All I can think about is when I'll be able to talk again without being in pain from moving my tongue, when I'll be able to sing again, if I'll be able to sing again. This whole process has done nothing but taken my life away little by slow and I just want to hear other people's experiences so I can be motivated to get my life back.