Thanks! I think I really need to record or tape the appointments with the surgeons.. Because the length of the cancer on the tongue (the Primary) is 11mm... but it's considered stage IV... I'll have to get all the facts straightened out today...

also, would the grafting part on the tongue be able to replace the part that's taken out or just partially? If you don't mind me asking, how long does it take to be able to speak or make some sounds afterwards (like uh-huh, or uh-um)?

i'm thinking after he comes home from the hospital, that I'll give him all liquids and then blended juices from potatoes, or fruits and veges, and then work it up to small bites of solid foods.

Thanks so much and hope your post op check up goes well!