Thanks Kelly, I'm pretty good at battleax mode(poor guy living with a battleax New Yorker). We justagain discussed the importance of him putting on the weight. I said 15 pounds in two weeks(I seem to put 15 pounds on just standing in front of the bakery counter. sigh) but I'll take 10 happily.
I read somewhere here that folks also use ensure so in addition to him getting used to eating three meals(no more meal skipping) of fattening stuff I suggested he have the ensure around for times he's busy and for in between. Hope I'm on the right track and that doesn't fill him unnecessarily.
We're going to go out for the day, enjoy the kids(and the dog who is clearly feeling the tension in the house) and just try to go back to being us for a bit!!!