#95527 05-15-2009 05:55 AM | Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 225 "OCF across the pond" Gold Member (200+ posts) | OP  "OCF across the pond" Gold Member (200+ posts)
Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 225 | Hi all, I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone. I have had more help, support, comfort here than I have from any consultant or doctor. And Martin who is a computerphobe is very grateful too. I feel like I have made some friends. I think we would have felt so lonely without this site. Most of you are across the ocean from us, but you feel so much closer. We are not out of the woods yet and there is much improvement to be done, but we feel better, and not alone. Thank you so much. All the best to everyone. Cecilia PS: It sounds like a leaving email. I am not leaving I just thought I would say how much you have helped 
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Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Cecelia, thats what make this site so special. The caring and helpfulness of those who have gone thru this before. As a caregiver, its important to know you are not alone and have a place to come to for support. Wishing both you and Martin the best.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive | | | | | Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | It's the best thing in the world to be able to read accounts and talk to people who have experienced these things. I don't personally know anyone who's ever had a mask fitted over their face and then clamped to a table while being radiated, but they are all over this forum and that's great to know, just for one example.
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | The best thing about helping is being there when you're needed and that's what this site is all about....24/7 live real experienced help.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,082 | Just keep posting and participating. The experiences here do cover the waterfront. for example Every single person I know who has been radiated was fitted with a mask and bolted down to a table. I am on my second mask. this time I had them make a hole for the mouth in case I need suction for mucous
65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Passed away 4-29-13
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Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 294 | That feature of being clamped down to the table is quite unsettling to say the least. I will never forget that feeling once clamped down and then the tech leaving the room and closing that big vault like door.
Bill Dozier
Dx 4/27/06, SCC, BOT, Stage III/IV, Tx 5/25/06 through 7/12/06 - 33 IMRT and 4 chemo, radical right side neck dissection 9/20/06.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I was never clamped down and I believe it's mostly just the head is made immobile to keep it steady. It isn't bad at all. Maybe if the imagination leads the way, it could be. Just let them do their thing as they do these every day.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I just noticed that where did you get that big vault like door?? Hell, most of the time they are right there close by in the same room. I think that for my next follow up, I am going to tell them about this LOL They will get a big chuckle.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | [quote=EzJim] I was never clamped down and I believe it's mostly just the head is made immobile [/quote]
Maybe it is JUST the head but believe me if someone put a million dollars of cash at your feet and said "it's yours if you can get it" you would be totally cash poor.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,082 | Well at my CCC, it's not just the head. (Although as David points out, that's quite enough to immobilize you.) They also secure both of your wrists as well as your ankles. I did think it was overkill, and it did trigger my Catholic imagination with flashbacks to the Inquisition.
65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Passed away 4-29-13
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