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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | I finally was able to get to the hospital today. Dot is resting easily and did recognize me. We had short converstions and I was happy that she knew who I was. Her husband is talking about hospice now.
Every time my cell phone rings, I jump.
Thanks for all the warm, caring posts. You are all truly my dearest friends.
Jerry
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | Dot's family has been informed by the hospital that there is nothing else they can do for her. She will be going home tomorrow to start hospice care and for what I hopw will be a peaceful passing.
Your prayers are greatly appreciated.
Jerry
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 756 Likes: 1 | Jerry,
So sorry to hear it has come to this, and so quickly. I'll pray for a miracle, and it that is not to be, that it will be a peaceful passing.
Susan
SCC R-Lateral tongue, T1N0M0
Age 47 at Dx, non-smoker, casual drinker, HPV-
Surgery: June 2005
RT: Feb-Apr 2006
HBOT: 45 in 2008; 30 in 2013; 30 in 2022 -> Total 105!
Recurrence/Surgeries: Jan & Apr 2010
Biopsy 2/2011: Moderate dysplasia
Surgery 4/2011: Mild dysplasia
Dental issues: 2013-2022 (ORN)
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Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 794 | Jerry, I'm so glad that you got to see Dot while she still recognized you. What a long, close relationship you must have had together, and how sad for it to come to an end in this way. Perhaps, with her at home, you will have another opportunity to visit. I will add her to my ever-lengthening prayer list.
XO
Colleen--T-2N0M0 SCC dx'd 12/28/05...Hemi-maxillectomy, partial palatectomy, neck dissection 1/4/06....clear margins, neg. nodes....no radiation, no chemo....Cancer-free at 4 years!
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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | It's with great sadness and I must admit with some relief, that I was told tonight that Dot passed away this evening. The last week has been terrible for her family as she had been in a coma and had several seizures.
It's quite an accomplishment for someone in the dental assisting field to remain in the same job for over 25 years. She was my right hand, a very devoted employee as well as a friend and she will be sorely missed by me and all of her coworkers.
Jerry
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 718 | I'm so sorry Jerry, my condolences to you, your fellow practice mates and Dot's family.
Margaret
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C/G: Husband, 48 (at time of dx)
Dx 5/18/07 SCC, BOT, lymph node involvement. T1N2BM0. (Stage 4a, G2/3)
Tx 6/18 - 8/3/07, IMRT x 33 Cisplatin x3 (stopped after 1st dose due to hearing issues). Weekly Erbitux started 6/27/07 completed 8/6/07.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | So sorry to hear of her passing. I know you will miss her.
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Jerry, as always you have all of my best. You truly a great friend to her family and to all of us. Ihopw when it's my time to leave this earth, I have friends like you and it just takes a few days. All of you are in my prayers.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 475 | Jerry,
I am so sorry. You were a great friend to her and her family. Be comforted knowing you were there for her till the end.
I am thinking of you . . .
Susan Lauria - OCF Director of Events - Always looking for volunteers to help spread the word about early detection! Contact me if you can help!
*Brother passed away from tongue cancer in 2006 at age 47, was co-caregiver, he was non-smoker/casual drinker
LETS MAKE ORAL CANCER HISTORY!
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Joined: May 2008 Posts: 357 | Jerry.
I'm so sorry for you at this sad time, but I know you will keep her memory in your heart.
Marlene
Marginal mandibulectomy 6/17/08 resulted in DX of Stage I SCC - gingiva (3 mm) right mandible, buccal side. Clear margins. Occasional social drinker. Smoked last cigarette in 1979. Clear pet: 12/08; 7/20/09. Yay!
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