#7990     08-03-2006 01:02 PM      |       Joined:  May 2003  Posts: 928    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  May 2003  Posts: 928  |    Dear Lorie  Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved Don... my heart breaks for you and your family. Marica and Pete Evans        
Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!
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#7991     08-03-2006 01:06 PM      |       Joined:  Feb 2006  Posts: 115    Gold Member (100+ posts)   |           Gold Member (100+ posts)    Joined:  Feb 2006  Posts: 115  |    Lorie, my thoughts and sincerest sympathy are with you at this very sad time. 
  Love, Michele        
Michele, caregiver to husband, Jesse, SCC diagnosed 1/5/06 unknown primary, lf neck mass >6 cm. Chemo (Cisplatin 2x; Carboplatin & Taxol 2x) & XRT radiation 39X ending 4/4/06.  Rad neck dissection 8.5 hrs 4/13/06. 30 HBO treatments Fall 2006.
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#7992     08-03-2006 03:42 PM      |       Joined:  Apr 2006  Posts: 35    Contributing Member (25+ posts)   |           Contributing Member (25+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2006  Posts: 35  |    Lorie, I am so sorry that you have lost your beloved husband and partner. Your beautiful post speaks volumes of the love that you shared, and you were right there, caring for him up to the end. We are all the poorer for his passing.  With deepest sympathy, Charlotte and Tom        
Caregiver and wife of Tom: SCC BOT, mets to neck, T4. Dx 3/03: multi-drug chemo, IMRT, Tx 9/03, No surgery.
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#7993     08-04-2006 02:06 AM      |       Joined:  Dec 2005  Posts: 14    Member   |           Member    Joined:  Dec 2005  Posts: 14  |    Dear Lori,  You are so in my thougths and prayers.  I pray that loss is cushioned by all the love you shared!  God Bless you and your family.
  Cindy        
Diagnosed in October 2005. 35 weeks of radiation and 3 chemo treatments. 6/21/06Right partial mandibulectomy in the right mandibular gingiva.  T2, N1, MX Postive Margins. Aug. 06 came back and now passed away 4/8/07
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#7994     08-04-2006 09:00 AM      |       Joined:  Apr 2006  Posts: 378    "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2006  Posts: 378  |    Dear Lori, I am so sorry to hear about your husband. I hope that you will find peace in your garden and feel Don with you there. What a wonderful tribute to both of you. Regards JoAnne        
JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.
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#7995     08-04-2006 12:36 PM      |       Joined:  Jan 2004  Posts: 1,116    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |           Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2004  Posts: 1,116  |    Lori, I am sorry to read about Don's passing. God Bless you and your family...Love, Carol        
Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10 ---update passed away 8-27-11--- 
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#7996     08-06-2006 04:24 PM      |       Joined:  Dec 2003  Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2    Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Dec 2003  Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2  |    Lorie,
  I am so sorry to hear the news of Don's passing.  I know it has been so tough and for such a long time now.  Even knowing how things were progressing and what was inevitable, nothing can prepare you for what you had to endure and are still aching from.  I am hoping that your heart will always be filled with love and I am asking for peace and comfort for you and the entire circle of family and friends that you and Don shared.  Even though my heart is sad, I am so glad that Don had the opportunity to pour out so much love in his final gift to you.  May your garden always grow strong and may the beauty always fill you with his love.
  I offer my sincerest condolences and please ask if there is anything I can do for you.
  With love,
  Ed        
SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0 Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days  radiation Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03 Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.  Cervical Spinal Stenosis  01/11 Cervical Myelitis 09/12 Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12 Dysautonomia 11/12 Hospice care 09/12-01/13. COPD 01/14 Intermittent CHF 6/15 Feeding tube NPO 03/16 VFI 12/2016 ORN 12/2017 Cardiac Event 06/2018 Bilateral VFI 01/2021 Thoracotomy Bilobectomy  01/2022 Bilateral VFI 05/2022 Total Laryngectomy 01/2023
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