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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Hi stephen
seems like you have done your research on your medical team and although i am a "limey" and dont quite understand the american medical system,it all looks good to me.
Glad you have a sense of humour Stephen ,you will sure need it over the next few weeks.
Only one slight worry i have is i think you should change the name of your doctor to exterminator because the last thing you need is for Arnies famous saying to be stalking you.!!!
love and good luck
liz
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | I just don't know that much about your particular cancer. Perhaps Brian can shed some light. I am not much on aggressive vs not that aggressive when it comes to treatment but I am in the minority. This cancer is a funny thing in that I have seen people get the full blown aggressive in every way treatment and not survive and I have seen the minimally aggressive ones survive with the same staging.
Now the main goal is to keep you alive and this cancer will definitely kill without Tx but second to that goal, without which there are no second goals, is quality of life after Tx. So it becomes very difficult for doctors treating our cancer to balance those 2 goals together because if they don't treat us to the right degree of aggressive the second goal doesn't matter.
I went to 5 different cancer doctors and got just about 5 different Tx plans and 5 different percentage chances of survival. The odd thing was my best, in terms of less surgery, Tx plan came with my best chance of survival by the best source, a Comprehensive Cancer Center. Now back before I started Tx I didn't have the advantage of this site and in fact I didn't find this site until AFTER my Tx was over, so I knew nothing of this cancer and others' experiences compared to now so I feel lucky in many respects to have been treated the way I did and have survived with minimal quality of life issues.
Can't tell you what to do but I found getting so many opinions an education itself.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | One more opinion is exactly what you do want Stephan. If your Ro was at Presby in Pittsburgh, he was at one of the best. Had shoulder surgery there 3 times and both elbows put back together by Dr Dana C Mears a world wide known Orthopedic Surgeon. I wish you well and let as many check you out as you feel comfortable with. The University of Pittsbugh is Presby a great teaching Hospital with the best.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2 | [quote=Stephen]Good morning,
Tuesday I was diagnosed with a low grade mucoepidermoid carcinoma.
The prognosis is pretty good per my ENT Dr., however I'm still going through a roller-coaster of emotions.
I'm a 37 year old husband and father of three children (8, 5, and 2.99)... I enjoy running marathons (ran three, but not real fast), have no history of any tobacco use, and sit here typing you still stunned.[/quote]
Over on the other side of the country, I've just joined you Stephen. Low-grade Mucoepidermoid Carcinoma diagnosed last Thursday, age 39 husband and father of an 8 year old boy. Play ice hockey 3 days/week, no history of tobacco, and stunned as you were a month ago...roller coaster of emotions is right!
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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Hi there Frantzy
firstly welcome to OCF,and secondly how unusual to find two men with such similarities in circumstances joining the site with one of the less common forms of Oral Cancer.
The shock and the "roller coaster"scenario are however common to all newly diagnosed forum members who have not always been lucky enough to find this site so early in the journey as you two have.
Following Brians guide lines i would advise you to read the introductory forum,and then using the search engine at the bottom of the page read everything you can about the disease,its diagnosis,staging,treatment and prognosis,and then paper and pen in hand,fire away with the questions.
On a personal note,having a fellow sufferer to compare feelings and worries with is a great help so why not PM stephen?, the journey can be a lot easier with a friend.
good luck
liz
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Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Frantzy,
When you do come back with questions, etc it's best to start your own post so that we can give you our undivided attention.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2 | I'll follow both of your pieces of advice, David & Liz
Thanks,
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Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 21 | Just posted some PM and public replies to Mike, thanks for your advice everyone!
Welcome aboard Mike!
Age 37, low grade mucoepidermoid carcinoma of the upper right palate 7/15/2008, Never Used Tobacco, runner (3 marathons!), Shorin Ryu Karateka, Husband, Father of three (8,5,3)... and does this mean I can go skydiving now?
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Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 4,912 Likes: 53 | Since a couple people mentioned that this is a rarer form of oral cancer, I just want to note that it is true, with SCC taking about 85% of the cases. But the OCF web site has information on this form of OC as well. Here is the actual page http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/facts/rare/mc/index.htmMost of the rest of the site information stays the same, even though this disease type is slightly different.
Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.
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