Yeh, right Baby B..........I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar!!!!! I know Frank is still with me, at times I think he`s running the show.....things happen that just smack me in the head.....case in point, my kids found me a house in Ala.......something told me this was the house.......pond and skylights in master bedroom.......2 wks go by and it suddenly hits me that a pond and skylights were 2 things I wanted here in Maine, but then Frank got sick and it never happened, so he found me one. Right after Frank died, talked to my shrink, who said you know Frank is still with you............When I saw him last week,I asked him what he meant by that........I wanted to know if my grief was tricking me into thinking he was with me. I wanted to know if he was saying he`s in your heart yada, yada, yada. Ofcourse, he could`nt say I think he is with you, but he said lots of things happen that we can`t explain, but we just say Thank You................Dee....aka.........BA