Hello 69 BigBlock,
Welcome to the forums.
I hope you are recovering well from your surgery.
My two cents are those types of questions would best be answered by your doctors and / or a second opinion.
Perhaps it would help you weigh the decision to compile a list of your questions and meet again with oncologist to have them explain the relative risks of the options better?
If you are in the US, I’d ask if you are doing this at National Cancer Institute (NCI) designated Comprehensive Cancer Center (CCC). If you are in the US and you are not at a CCC, you may consider getting a second opinion at a CCC if feasible.
They may explain it better or have a different recommendation.
So far my lymph biopsies nodes came back clean (axillary—likely just inflammation reactive on PET/CT).
Have you had a PET?
My PET wasn’t until a while after surgery as my tumor was tiny, and micro invasive.
Side effect risks on both chemo and immunotherapy are highly personally variable, might be a crap shoot.
Maybe request them help you decide?
Maybe as you chew on the questions and read more up on the side effectcts and ask clarification questions to your care team you’ll arive at a more comfortable understanding of the risk and your situation?
Did they do
HPV testing on it? Mine they did not, and I wished they did.
My Dad and Brother both had bad reactions to Chemo and immunotherapy like treatments (details obscured in exact regimen, both had Carboplatin)
Best wishes for a cancer free recovery for you and clarity of mind in deciding your course of action.
R/
CQ