#2006 02-24-2004 01:33 AM | Joined: May 2003 Posts: 33 Contributing Member (25+ posts) | OP  Contributing Member (25+ posts)
Joined: May 2003 Posts: 33 | Hello, I know some of you knew who my father was, Packer66. Well I wanted to let you all know that my dad has passed away. He died sometime in the middle of the night on Febuary 23rd. This is a very hard time for me, I guess I never thought I would be only 29 and have to bury one of my parents. I want to thank all of you who were so wonderful with him, this is a wonderful site with a lot of caring and understanding people. Again I thank you, from me and my father.  | | | 
#2007 02-24-2004 02:46 AM | Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 1,244 Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 1,244 | Hi.. Am sure that was the hardest thing you have ever had to write.. but thank you.. Your Dad's passing will mark a sad day for all who knew him and repected his courage and fortitude.. All I can say is that you and all your family are in my prayers and I send you much love and big hugs to share...
Helen
SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04
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#2008 02-24-2004 03:06 AM | | Anonymous Unregistered | | Anonymous Unregistered
| Packer's Llittle Girl,
No words can express how sorry I am to hear your news. There are many of us on this board whom your Dad and Mom have made a difference in our lives.
In this difficult time I want to thank you for posting and letting us know. My thoughts are with you and your family.
There are many of us who would like to acknowledge how much your Dad meant to us,when you are able would you please post information on services and such.
If there is anything at all I can do please email me privately.
God Bless,
Dinah | | |
#2009 02-24-2004 03:20 AM | Joined: May 2003 Posts: 33 Contributing Member (25+ posts) | | OP Contributing Member (25+ posts)
Joined: May 2003 Posts: 33 | Thank you all, Dinah I know that you do not know but Dee is not my mother, she has been my dads girlfriend for about 15 or 16 years,I know that you did not know and that is ok, but I just wanted to let everyone know that she is not my mother, thank you all for your reply's, we are going to start on the arrangements today, I just found out last night,he lived in Maine and I am in PA, so I have to start on things today. I will let everyone know when everything will be. Thank you. Packer66 little girl. | | |
#2010 02-24-2004 06:01 AM | Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 372 "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)
Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 372 | Dear Packer 66's little girl:
I am so sorry to hear abour Packer. Just from reading over the posts since last July when I found this board, I see how much he went through and what a great fighter he was. I have two boys who are about 20 and 25 and it has been so hard for them to see their father sick like this, so I can imagine what you have been through. I will pray for you and your family during this most difficult time and thank you for sharing as I know that was hard, too.
May God Bless you and wrap His arms around you and give you strength and comfort as you go thru the arrangements. Keep those wonderful memories of him fresh as you go thru this.
Debbie
Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.
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#2011 02-24-2004 07:21 AM | Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,163 Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,163 | I am sorry for the passing of Packer66. You, Dee and your family have my deepest condolances.
Remember the good times as they will help you get through the next few weeks.
Packer66 was one of the most upbeat person I knew. When I get down I think of what Packer endured and it makes me feel how lucky I have been. I can't think of anyone who has stood up to this diaease better than Packer. It is a sad and memorable day for all the members of OCF. Packer66 was held in high reguard.
Dee, Thank you for taking such good care of Packer, You are a special person and I hope you continue to post offering what you can.
Your Friend, Dan Bogan
Daniel Bogan DX 7/16/03 Right tonsil,SCC T4NOMO. right side neck disection, IMRT Radiation x 33.
Recurrance in June 05 in right tonsil area. Now receiving palliative chemo (Erbitux) starting 3/9/06
Our good friend and loved member of the forum has passed away RIP Dannyboy 7-16-2006
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#2012 02-24-2004 07:22 AM | Joined: Oct 2002 Posts: 546 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Oct 2002 Posts: 546 | Please accept my condolences. Your father was an inspiration to many. He will be missed.
Rosie
Was primary caregiver to my daughter Heather who had stage IV base of tongue SCC w/ primary recurrence. Original diagnosis August 21st, 2002. Primary recurrence March 18th, 2003. Died October 6th, 2003.
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#2013 02-24-2004 07:26 AM | Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 1,140 Likes: 1 Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Mar 2002 Posts: 1,140 Likes: 1 | Yes, your dad was brave and strong, and an inspiration to others. He will not be forgotten. Please know that many here share your sorrow. | | |
#2014 02-24-2004 07:48 AM | Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,152 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,152 | Words cannot express the sorry we all feel to hear that your father lost his fight with this horrible disease. He was one of the bravest and t strength in his and Dee's posts inspired many people on this board and will continue to do so. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I
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#2015 02-24-2004 08:29 AM | Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 59 Supporting Member (50+ posts) | | Supporting Member (50+ posts)
Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 59 | I wanted to express my deepest condolences on the loss of your father.May god bless you and give you peace.
Patty
Caretaker of Joe,10/03 malignant melanoma of the tongue.
50% tongue removed,left radical neck dissection.11/03.Recurrence
to jaw and neck and multiple mets to major organs 1/2004
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