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Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,301 | I am so sorry to read your news that Jen passed away in January.
Sending you and your family my sincere sympathies Jay.
There is nothing more I can add that has not already been said. Love and hugs to you and Hunter.
Gabriele
History Leukoplakia bx 8/2006 SCC floor mouth T3N0M0- Verrucous Carcinoma.
14 hour 0p SCC-Right ND/excision/marginal mandibulectomy 9/2006, 4 teeth removed, flap from wrist, trach-ng 6 days- no chemo/rad.
6 ops and debulking (flap/tongue join) + bx's 2006-2012.
bx Jan 2012 Hyperkeratosis-Epithelial Dysplasia
24cm GIST tumour removed 8/2013. Indefinite Oral Chemo.
1/31/16 passed away peacefully surrounded by family
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Joined: Apr 2013 Posts: 76 | Jay,I am so so sorry to read your news. My prayers and sympathy go out to you and Hunter. You were an amazing caregiver to Jen.
All my best,
Mary
Mary
Caregiver to husband, 60
Dx Sept '12 SCC BOT T2N2aMo, Stage IV, HPV+
Oct '12 Sub.Gland transfer
Nov-Dec '12 IMRT x 33 + cisplatin x7
March '13 PET/CT: 2 spots on lungs; (BOT & neck lymphs NED)
April '13 Biopsy: 1 = malignant right hilar lymph (met from HNSCC)p16
9/13: 33 rounds IMRT to lungs; carboplatinx7
CT w/contrast 12/30/13: 2 spots left hilar lymph. biopsy confirms SCC
30 rounds IMRT to left lung; treatment ended 5/29/14
Sept 2014--CT clear; December 2014 CT clear
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Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 756 Likes: 1 | Dear Jay,
I am so very sorry to hear about Jen. This disease is just so unfair especially when it claims the life of one so young and leaves a young child without his mother.
Thank you for taking the time to let us know. I know it must be so hard for you having watched this disease claim the life of your precious Jen and not being able to stop it.
Please accept my condolences and give Hunter a hug from me.
Susan
SCC R-Lateral tongue, T1N0M0
Age 47 at Dx, non-smoker, casual drinker, HPV-
Surgery: June 2005
RT: Feb-Apr 2006
HBOT: 45 in 2008; 30 in 2013; 30 in 2022 -> Total 105!
Recurrence/Surgeries: Jan & Apr 2010
Biopsy 2/2011: Moderate dysplasia
Surgery 4/2011: Mild dysplasia
Dental issues: 2013-2022 (ORN)
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Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 805 | Dear Jay,
All I can say has been said. So very sorry to hear your news. I had a feeling awhile back when I sent you the email that things weren't ok. just a gut thing. I wish I had been wrong. I truly pray that you will be able to eventually find joy again. I'm sure little Hunter keeps you smiling.
Thank you so much for coming back here to let us know.
Blessings to you and hunter,
Kathy
Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 1,293 Likes: 1 | Jay,
So sorry to hear about Jen. You did everything humanly possible to find a way to stop the cancer. You have Hunter to protect and raise as Jen would have done.
Thank you for posting.
Don
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com | | | | | Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 269 Gold Member (200+ posts) | | Gold Member (200+ posts)
Joined: Aug 2011 Posts: 269 | I do not have enough comforting words to say how sorry I am for you and your family's loss of your beloved. My prayers are with you and yours.
Nancy (53 at dx)
Metastatic SCC. Stage III. HPV positive with occult primary. N1, no ecs
7/1/11 - L-Selective neck dissection. Tonsillectomy. All clean. No rad, no chemo.
5/29/13 - Found primary
7/3/13 - TORS
7/8/13 - Emergency Surgery/Blood vessel burst in throat
8/9/13 - Peg in
9/3/13 - Radiation starts 30 IMRT, 60gy BOT, 56gy both sides of neck
10/14/13 - Radiation ended!
11/12/13 - PEG out!
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | So sorry, Jay. There are no words to express my deepest sorrow for the lost you and Hunter share. You've been with Jen every step of the way, caring for her, loving her and comforting her. As you go on I hope there will be days when you and Jay will find comfort in the closeness with each other, knowing you and Jen did everything possible to beat this horrible disease.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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