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Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 1 | Good morning, my husband was diagnosed with advanced sinus cancer that had spread to his eye, brain and lymph nodes, not to mention some bone matter that had also managed to get in on the game. We are nearly 2 years out from that day, a day in which he was told to prepare to die. They told us he was terminal and all they could offer was palliative care. Not so. We kept searching and found an incredible group of surgeons who saved his life. He underwent surgery that saw him lose his eye, orbit, a few random bones in the forehead and cheek but he has recovered and is incredible today! This year in September will mark the 2 year mark and reconstruction begins! New nose, new eye, some teeth.....a million dollar man! We are blessed. So, has anyone been through this? What is the reconstruction going to entail. This is a "never give up" message! | | | | | Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,409 Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,409 | That's amazing to read, Quemon. I'm so happy for both of you, and welcome to our family. I'm sure others will weigh in with more specific advice.
David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 15 years all clear in 6/24 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | What a super wonderful "never give up" message! Sometimes "terminal" doesn't mean terminal! Yay! for your husband and for you, too for helping him through a tough journey and with such a positive thoughts for what is to come.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Jun 2013 Posts: 262 | How beautiful, Quemon, I hope you have many more happy years!!!
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T3N2aM0 HPV+
5/26/13 discovered painless superball-sized lymph node in neck
6/26/13 DX SCC R palatine tonsil
7/16/13 TORS tonsillectomy & selective ND, mets to 2 nodes
9/3/13 Cisplatin and rads begin, tolerated 1.5 of 3 planned chemo doses
10/16/13 Treatment ends
Dec 13 Ulcer appears at surgery site
Jan 17 Biopsy -- no cancer!
Feb 17 CT/PET Scan lights up tonsil bed & nasal cavity, docs say probably inflammation, don't panic, rescan when ulcer subsides
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Great Great Great!!!
I hope someone can help you but in all my years on this site I don't recall someone having to go thru what you two have accomplished.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Apr 2013 Posts: 319 | Wow! I echo everything said to date! Your man is an incredible person, and so is his wife and caregiver! Thanks for making my day with an incredible tale of courage and determination! You have put real life into the message, "Never Give Up!"
I salute you both!
Best of continued luck to you both!
My intro: http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbt...3644#Post16364409/09 - Dx OC Stg IV 10/09 - Chemo/3 Cisplatin, 40 rad 11/09 - PET CLEAN 07/11 - Dx Stage IV C. (Liver) 06/12 - PET CLEAN 09/12 - PET Dist Met (Liver) 04/13 - PET CLEAN 06/13 - PET Dist Met (Liver + 1 lymph node) 10/13 - PET - Xeloda ineffective 11/13 - Liver packed w/ SIRI-Spheres 02/14 - PET - Siri-Spheres effective, 4cm tumor in lymph-node 03/15 - Begin 15 Rads 03/24 - Final Rad! Woot! 7/27/14 Bart passed away. RIP!
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Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 5,264 Likes: 5 | So glad he beat the odds - I always say - never say never... Hugs and love to you both.
Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | I have not seen any other member go thru as much as your husband and survive. He is very fortunate!
My situation was very serious with several complications but it was not even close to the extend of what your husband went thru. I have had a mandibulectomy which removed half of my lower jaw. After one year I was allowed to have some reconstructive surgeries done. I found the reconstructive surgeries to be much easier to go thru than the original mandibulectomy. The first reconstructive surgery was done as a starting point, I had a second surgery a few months later. My physician wanted me to do more surgeries but I refused. I found each one more difficult than the last to recover from. It took many months of IV antibiotics 3x daily and weeks of hyperbaric oxygen treatments to recover from the original mandibulectomies.
I would think your husbands physicians will do the reconstructive surgery in several steps. It wont be easy but he has had 2 years to heel from his original treatments which will make him stronger so he should handle this easier.
Wishing you and your husband all the very best with everything!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 153 "OCF Canuck, across the pond" Senior Member (100+ posts) | | "OCF Canuck, across the pond" Senior Member (100+ posts)
Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 153 | Wow. A former colleague of mine had sinus cancer as a teenager and went through what sounds like really horrible chemotherapy for it at the time, but is a strong healthy young man now, and you wouldn't know he'd ever been ill. They told him he might never have full use of one of his arms (I forget why), but he got to the gym and proved them wrong.
Good luck!
-Seth
47 yr old male non-smoker, social drinker, fit. Jan'10, Stg3 rt tonsil+rt neck SCC, HPV+, rad+chmo Vancouver Cda. 2yr clear Apr'12 London UK. Apr'13 mets recur to lymph btw left lung & aorta, 3x Cisplatin+5FUchemo+20 rad, was all clear but 6-mo PET-CT shows mets to pleura around left lung, participating in St 1 trial of GDC-0980. GDC lost effect and ended July'14, bad atrial fibrillation requiring hospitalisation, start more standard chemo 10 Sep 2014.
Sadly has passed away, notified Jan 2015.
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 1,293 Likes: 1 | Thanks for the post! It is always great to hear stories of such conviction and ability to find a good outcome where others have given up. don
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com | | |
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