I think this thread has moved off of the original posters question far enough and has had plenty of time to be explored and responded to. I am going to close this thread to new posts. If anyone cares to revisit any of the questions, observations, etc. please start a new thread.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.