lori
my heartfelt sympathy. I am watching my husband of 32 years wilt before my eyes. He too had tongue ca dx in 05 and recurred in aug 06 and again nov 07 and most recently infiltrating to FOM and in skin and bone of oral cavity. I just look at him wondering how long we have together. So painful for him, i pray he just go to sleep.
I am across the border in MN if you ever want to meet for some comfort talk
nancyh

nancyh caregiver to steve dx 2005, x3 recurrence...no further tx would be tolerated. Had radiation twice with chemo added the second round...cancer widespread throughout oral cavity.