Welcome aboard and sorry you had to find this site. You will get lots of good advice here. My suggestion for starters is to look at the list of forums and find the "Getting Through It Project" at the bottom of the list. Click on "Draft Copy". This document has a wealth of information from those who have been there and it educated me very quickly as a caregiver. Also throw out any questions you have - answers come quickly here. Good luck to you both!

Cheryl


CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10