Being a caregiver ,while also being scared out of your mind about the future and well being of your husband and your family and life is hard. 101 things you have to do in every day life and also the 1001 new things that have to be done during tx,leaves you exhausted and mentally drained.you wouldn't be human if you didn't feel tetchy and waspish on occasions,and the burdens you now have to shoulder while your man just tries to stay upright and functioning are a heavy weight to carry.

dont be despondant this is all perfectly natural and may even get worse for a while but come here and share your feelings with those of us who have been there and got the tee shirt.it does help pat.

love liz


Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.