Hey guys thanks for the quick respones that i received and i agree i am at the right site for info.AMEN!!! Yes she is still at MD Anderson and i do have confident in the drs. there but that ole devil puts the doubts and worries in your head. One question do yall know anyone that has had this type of ca before and if so can i talk to them i would love for her to be able to talk to someone that has been in her shoes we cant tell her that other people have survived lymph ca to tell there stories and we personally know people but her come back to us is that my ca so rare and they dont understand my situation because chemo will not respond to mine I understand what she is saying right know is such a bad time due to the wedding her age I know there is never a good time we are trying to keep her busy to keep her mind off as much as possible though we should hear from the drs today concerning if the ins. is going to pay for the avastin. Have any of you taken that med before and if so what were your side effects next question have any of you have plastic facial sx there and if so are you happy with the outcome and what was the drs. name. I may have told you that they will have to take her cheek bone out even though they say it isnt in the bone they need to remove it to get to the tumor. I was wondering way they couldnt keep her bone and replace her own bone on final reconstruction sx. that will be one of my questions to them when we go back down there. I appreciate any feedback God Bless You All darla