Rosie,
My heart goes out to you...I am in tears for you and your family...I have a 7 year old son...I don't know what I would say...It is UNFAIR...we don't always know why...but there must be a meaning a reason...I pray someday we will know.

Peace be with you and remember love is all.


Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.