Hello, Judy - I'm so sorry for your loss. Facing life without your husband will be difficult, but with the support of family and friends, you can work through your grief --- it is hard work, though. Please let us know how you are doing.
Marlene
Marginal mandibulectomy 6/17/08 resulted in DX of Stage I SCC - gingiva (3 mm) right mandible, buccal side. Clear margins. Occasional social drinker. Smoked last cigarette in 1979. Clear pet: 12/08; 7/20/09. Yay!