Hi Loretta,
She has undoubtly helped thousands of people just like you over the years. I'm really surprised that the insurance company divulged the info on her husband. Since they are being so candid, try calling them back and ask if there is some way for you to send her a card letting her know how much she helped you and how much sad you are that she has to confront this awful disease, or whatever you want to say. And yes, cancer is a beast.

Eileen


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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I