Judy,

Nothing psychosomatic about all this, as you know! Who needs pretend when you've got the real thing. I know how he feels, though. Until I found this site last month I had the same thoughts.

You know, years ago my husband said that I had a low threshhold for pain. I actually believed him. After all, he knows everything. Then, while he was writhing in pain from something I considered fairly small, it occurred to me that he couldn't possibly have any way to judge my level of pain. He has never mentioned it again - especially since my battle with OC began 3 years ago.

Lani


SCC part glossectomy 3/06, recur 8/06 glossectomy, floor of mouth, part of jaw removed, RT/chemo thru 10/12/06, PET clear 7/08
"A bend in the road is not the end of the road, unless you fail to make the turn"
Passed away 12/14/08