Hey Megan,

Welcome! I was a lurker too (heh,heh) I'm not normally an open person (I'm more of a listener then a talker) so it took me a bit to finally decide to "log in" and join the forums.
I'm so glad I did! What an amazing group of people here. So caring and so willing to share in any way that it will help.
If you've seen any of my posts? you'd never believe that I'm a quiet, not usually much to say, especially about myself kinda person. Seems I've learned how to chat away! ~grin~.
It has much to do with the openness and true caring of the individuals here that have made me so comfortable that I can actually talk about the things that are so hard to talk about in my life right now. and in doing, I have learned so much and been helped so much by all the folks here.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.... and all my best to you and your husband.