Hi Mariam.
I have no advice to offer but wanted to say hello. I am sorry your dad is so frightened and all of you so worn out. It's not easy for anyone. We are just past a year since mom had her surgery and things are still not the same. I know that they will never be.
Just wanted to send a hug to you and will keep you all in my thoughts.
Donna


Donna
CG to Mom, dx 4/25/07 with tongue cancer,T3N0,tx began 7/6/07, 31 tx's of IMRT, 8 cycles of Erbitux. Brachytherapy, surgery, left neck dissection and temp trach placed all on 9/17/07, trach removed 10/17/07. ORN of jaw, late effect of radiation symptoms. **lost my beautiful mother on 5/5/11.