Now thT IS tough question to answer. I would say it depends on your Mother and how much she can tolerate. I live by myself and have gone thru this whole process alone , cooked, washed clothes, drove to Dr appts. and at times I wish I had someone to help, but I made it and got better and stronger daily.What does your Mother say about her condition? I feel sorry for this decision that has to be made or rather for you for having to make it. I was stationed in DC at Bolling AFB years ago in the Honor Guard and Drill Team. My son was at the Naval Base right next to Bolling in the Navy Honor Guard. Good Luck with your Mother and what you do.


Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here