Welcome Bill. You certainly have found the right place as lots of us have similar experiences - sometimes more than once!

Sounds like you are right on top of things but it truly does take awhile for the truth to sink in. I've never spent much time on "why me" either, but then I did smoke. There is so much more beyond "why me", and this is an AWESOME place to post all your questions and thoughts and fears.

Are you out of hospital already?? At any rate, look forward to hearing more from you.

Donna


Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)