Supporting Member (50+ posts) Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 57 | Hope. That's what we all share. It hurts when you hear those words. It hurts so much that you can not repeat them. I know how you feel. Your loss for words is o.k. Your heart is speaking to you not your head. Keep your head up and do whatever you possibly can to let your father know that you will support him. It is time to focus on him. He knows you and your loved ones feel the pain. My brother never wanted us to feel the pain. He said to keep our head up. He didn't want us to be sad around him. Believe me is wasn't easy but you do the best you can. I will pray for your father and your family so that you have the strength. Hope is good. You never know. It's what comforted us at the time. Take Care of yourself.
Noemi
Brother diagnosed SCC August 2005, radiation and chemo- 2 rounds, total glossectomy Sept. 2007, passed away May 21, 2008 "Everyday is beautiful" he stated on a cold and foggy Chicago winter day.
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