Minnie- I'm sending good thoughts your way. How did the procedure go for you? Oh, I've decided to take your advice to have the future conversation and then let it go. I think that's the best advice I've had yet. It feels like a weight has been lifted. Funny how a simple suggestion can do that!
Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.