Donna - good luck to you. I'm sure the anxiousness and waiting are very tough, but I would want a biopsy too and I think the anxiety of thinking what if would drive e a little bonkers if they didn't biopsy.

Michelle, CG to husband (45), DX 2/08 Stage IVa Adenocarcinoma Salivary Gland (T2N2bMO)
Parotidectomy & ND 2/08, Tumor margins not clear, 4 of 30 nodes positve for cancer,
TX IMRT 39x, cisplatin 7x (completed 5/1/08),
PEG (4/22 - 7/9), No port. Currently in remission!