Hi everyone, I have been away from this site for a few years now. To update you briefly, my mum was diagnosed with base of tongue cancer in November 2003 and had a major op. to remove part of her tongue and neck disection in January 2004. The following year the cancer returned inside her right cheek. She had more surgery to remove and re-build the area. Then it came back again in the same place and again she had more surgery, then last year she was diagnosed with it again. This time it was in upper mandible and rightside of cheek and gum. She had one MAJOR operation plus 4 weeks of radiotherapy in July 07. She now has another re-occurrence in her Salivary Gland. There is a visible lump in the angle of her jaw and right ear. The lump looks quite big but we don't know for sure yet because she's got to go for an MRI Scan on the 15th April 08. So far the results of needle biopsy taken 2 weeks ago look very suspicious the consultant has said, given mum's history with the disease. However, I am very worried about her because she is in SO much pain. On a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the worst, she is at 10. As we don't know if any treatment options will be offered to her at this stage, I wondering what other pain relief she could take or do? At the moment she is taking an antiinflammatory called Voltarol every 8 hours and paracetamol but the pain is only relieved for a short time and comes back. She puts a cold pack to the area and that seems to do the trick for a short time aswell before she starts to feel pain again. Any advice?

Also, I have been trying to find someone who has had Salivary Gland cancer to hear about their story. So if any of you have been unfortunate to have had it or are a caregiver to someone who has had it, I would be very interested to hear from you.

I feel so down at the moment. One minute I feel ready to help mum fight this again and then another minute I just feel broken and despair. I love her so much and we are SO close. It's like she's my best friend too you know? Sorry guys if I am going on a bit I just needed someone to vent how I feel. Thanks for listening/reading.