Thank you for your replies, and I do appreciate your thanks. I didn't mean that anyone here owed me any thanks, ( if anything it is the long term posters here that deserve that) I was just saying that the one particular person who I directly helped via the phone etc. never said thanks.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.