Hey Markus - your last sentence is kind of where we are. Dan is so used to doing for himself and for our family as well and not used to me taking care of him except in the normal ways of household help since I am a stay at home mom. He likes taking himself to the regular IMRT treatments - and I like him doing it as well, for as long as he's able. It's these "surprise" see the doc times that are messing me up :-)