Thank you Bill in NC (I have a sister in Cherryville NC)I took your suggestion and read through the whole section of "Wish I had known then" I took many notes and will pass them on to my brother and sister-in-law. It was extremely helpful. I am very grateful to have found this website.
Thanks again
Sad Sister

Brother,56 yrs.old, diagnosed Feb.2008,scc,bot,+ 2 lymph nodes,stage3,HPV,peg,undergoing chemo and radiation 8 weeks beginning Mar 17,2008