Dear Lelfrink
After my op, I had one paralized vocal cord and traceal stenosis (narrowing of the wind pipe, which to my layman ears sounds a similar problem to yours)
I had to wait for 2 years till the one vocal cord compensated and then I had a traceal resection. (the narrowed part of my trachea was removed)
My ENT guy said he could have done some work on my vocal cards if nescesary, so maybe that needs a second opinion
A thorasic surgeon was in charge of the resection, I was fitted with a t-tube for six weeks after to allow everything to heal, and I must say before I could not even climb one flight of stairs and everyone who knew me (including the Docs) were under strict instructuions not to make me laugh, that would cause a major choking fit.
There is a Yahoo group for traceal stenosis that maybe a help for you at the moment.If you need a PEG get one, everyone here who needed one coped with it well.
Hope some of this helps
Sunshine.. love and hugs
Helen
Please excuse any spelling mistakes, Googles spell check has stopped working