glad to see you carol, i want every one in your family and jims family to know that i want the best for him also.. i know there has been alot going on and im the bad one for all that has happenend in jims life right now but i really do wish everyone would understand i did not leave jim because he has cancer.. there comes a time in everyones life that things are not all peachy and things have to move on... as you all know i was there for jim thru the first battle of his cancer and would still be there for him now if i was treated like i was a person.. and no i dont want any ones pity, thats the last i want .. all i wanted was to be treated like a person, not one to be pushed to the way side...i have so many times wanted to be there and take jim to the dr and such but it seems everytime i want to tell him that he sends me nasty email or messages on messenger that just makes me think other wise..i just ask myself who is this talking??it just seems he doesnt want my help anyway... im really glad you will be able to be there and help him... sorry for all the trouble i have caused in your whole family...and i do wish him and you all the best....luv ya all .. barb