I have by no means stopped going through the medicial route, and its my first step - as its the only thing that makes sense. The herbal questions are only questions to research and findings that I have come across.

And I haven't take her anywhere as of yet. Yes we are looking at other cancer centers but of course until we hear anything positive thats something we will look at, if and when get there. (I thought a second opinion wasn't a bad idea?)

Most of my research, questions, searching, etc, come at a time when my mom is sleeping or napping. I don't think I am taking anything away from her. If anything im exhausting myself from looking, basically driving myself crazy.

Who am i doing this for? Everyone goes sooner or later...

Right now, my focus is on building my mom's strength, not really a cure or anything else. With her being really weak, there is no quality of life. For her to even lift her arm, its a mission.

So I don't mean to offend anyone on the board with posting questions, but they are just questions, things that peak my interest. I don't think there is any harm.

I will PM Brenfran25... ..and am sorry to hear about your Husband ..

if you want my personal personal opinion, the doctors say 6 months, who am i to question it, in my mind ive accepted it ..ive read everything, I understand what happens with cancer..., but there is this need,


the world brought me to my knees...
Update: Feb 10/08: Mom passed away on Jan 31,08 - infection (unknown) in her lungs with her weakened immune system resulted in cardiac arrest - T2NO SCC of tongue surgery 6/30/06, SCC left neck and lungs detected Sept 07, 7 weeks rad/3 rounds chemo had no effect.