Very good answers Brian and Brenda. Never mention the words give up Lolita,, they are for losers and we are all winners in these forums. Take the pain meds and live your life like we all are. It's not bad when you keep the positive thoughts going.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here