Also hope you can find the QUESTIONS you need, Donna--not asking sometimes leaves us in the 'dark places', but at times that's better I guess than hearing answers we don't want--there are shades of dark too!
I'm hoping when you get back from the hospital visit today, you're both feeling much better Donna--keep us posted!

Love Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!