Melissa,
Thank you for posting--yours is the first post I've read where someone says they have been told it's incurable. I sincerely hope your chemo goes as well as your docs have predicted.
Maybe a field called 'Living with incureable Cancer' might be an idea?
My cancer was first diagnosed as oral, then the fact it's Primary in lung with mets to jaw changed treatment course--so the opposite way round to yours!
Are you feeling well at the moment??

Brenda