Wow, wow, wow. First, I have to thank you individuals who came through for my dad and I at the last minute, sending little angel messages, he LOVED it and I was just thrilled and warmed by him telling me he received the messages-he said he will get back to you.

So, obviously the selective, modified neck dissection went awesome. Those of you who have had them know that this a rather standard procedure. My dad was the first case of the day and our ENT told us that they will first scope and biopsy. If anything was malignant they would NOT move forward. So, he went back and my hubby and I did the whole waiting thing. As an hour approached I began to wonder what the results were. Just when my anxiety began the phone rang and the OR RN told me that they were moving forward with the procedure. The doc anticipated that it would take 3 hours. He came out and reported that there were no surprises and everything went as expected!! I gave him a huge hug and he told me not to do that until after 5 years-what a dork! (laugh)
I was very scared about how my dad would look-they don't let family go to the PACU (post anesthesia care unit). I ran to buy 6 dozen long stem roses to fill my hero's room. He came rolling down the hall with a huge smile on his face and his alien tubes sticking out of his neck (for newbies-the stick vacuum tubes in to remove the fluid accumulation from the neck.)
He is so happy-we walked around all night-he's eating as normal and thoroughly enjoying the percocet. He has no pain right now and loves his franken-neck.
Man, what a journey. My faith tells me that anxiety is a wasted emotion. I can't believe the head games that exist. I'm sure fear will come and go with the appts for ever--all we can do is pray for peace in our hearts.

You are all wonderful--please call on us if you need ANYTHING AT ALL.