Just got my offcial staging today...better than I thought at stage III, TII, NI, MO...had been told my BOT SSC had been there a "long" time...that was very scarey and i thought I wss in a lot more trouble than I am...now to decide on going with chemo/radiation or surgery, neck dissection & rad...I would love to get some feed back from those of you who have been there, done that...not asking anyone to make my choice for me...just your opinions...this site has been invaluable for me...doing very well, and hope you all are too...Katie