Lauriern,
I guess I was lucky as the Physical Therapist came to see me while I was still in the hospital and gave me 3 pages of exercises to do, and walked me through them all. Once I was home, my sister, who is a PT, nagged me about doing them regularly and helped me make sure I was doing them correctly. Since I am also a nurse, I knew she was right, and I still do some of them.... and have graduated to other things like light weights, etc. Is your husband going back anytime soon? Not sure where he was treated but I was treated at MD Anderson and each time I return they ask me if I would like to see a physical or speech therapist. (among other disciplines) But he could ask the doc for a referral to a PT who is familar with this type of exercise, would probably only need to go 1 - 3 times in order to make sure he's doing them correctly, and then do them on his own....