Carol,
believe it or not we run across a few here who fail to do their followups. Myself personally I would see an ENT or my H&N surgeon before I went to an oral surgeon. I bite myself all the time. I didn't realize that the flap is so close where you can bite it. I was told, when that was an option, that there were few nerves in the muscle tissue that make up the flap, so it's probably easy to bite and be unaware.

I am over 3 1/2 years out and I go every 4 months to the H&N surgeon and every 6 with the RO and the MO. The H&N guy's telling next year I will go every 6 months until 5 years and then annually asssuming, of course, that everything remains consistent.