My final end to this!
I saw the endocrinologist, and he put me on Effexor xr.  We will see if this will help.  I sure hope so.  I will know in a few weeks or maybe sooner in my case.  
 Will be going in for surgery sometime around the 21st. do not have the date yet.  I am fine with it all.  I have a good surgeon.  I thank you all for your support.
Take care,
Diane