Robin - I agree with Mellay and Gary - its much too soon to panic. The whole diagnosis process is scary - the new vocabulary of scary sounding words and the implications.... Take that deep breath and slow down a bit. Are you getting second opinions about her options? Are there other docs you can consult there? There is always more than one way to treat a condition, especially cancer.

Radiation can be given until an upper limit is reached. And I did have chemo as a primary treatment for tongue cancer (not the same cancer as your sister's). It was part of a trial being run from the University of Chicago. Ask your doc to read up on other options and tell you about them. Be strong. We are with you both. Tom