Hey, Craig-Just wanted to share a thought with you. There are some really happy men who have decided to stay at home and become the primary caregiver to their children. Their wives had good or "more secure" jobs and they did not want their child in someone else's care. Some of them have opened an in home daycare for 3 or 4 kids besides their own to suppliment income. Many child raising studies show that kids benefit greatly from a strong and loving male influence, and if a man truly enjoys children, he is every bit as capable of being the primary caregiver. If you have the strength and energy to care for your son-then think of this as new career with lots of possibilities Hope you find more things you can eat soon. Have fun with that baby boy! Amy